Should i be a lil upset?

So me and this guy have been talking for quite a while now..and my friends have dropped hints that even though were not techinically together (hes in the army and is stationed quite a ways away so we agreed to take it slow.) that it would be cute if he sent me something for valentines.. but all i got were flowers from my mom which were cute but at first i didnt know they were from her bcz all it was was "from your biggest fan" soo i thought him..but i asked and he said no and he got all jealous bcz he thought some other guy sent them but it ended up being my mom...anyways.... should i be mad that he didnt get me anything bcz we both really like eachother and i know we're not technically together but its to the point of being together w/o the label...i just dont know if i have a right to be mad that i didnt get flowers or anything..bcz to be honest i am a little pissed...i mean i sent him a card and whatnot but got nothing..